I have been telling my soon to be ex-wife that her lawyer and therapist are not interested in her, just that they can make more money off of her and with that mind set they are forcing additional litigation or therapy. Just like these RINO's all they want from you or me is additional time to continue raping all of us for their own personal gain!!
Sorry to hear that Ben61. For some reason women seem to be especially susceptible to that -especially during divorce hearings.
These women aren't paying for legal advice- they want someone to listen ( and not solve) their problems and validate their feelings, and will gladly fork over the families life saving to hear what they want to hear. I always tell the men I know to present their wives with papers splitting everything 60/40, providing a reasonable alimony payment, sharing custody, and agreeing to pay for child expenses 50/50 via submitting receipts for the specific items required (room & boards not included-as both parents need to provide that 1/2 of the time according to their fashion) , and to do it the day after she even SUGGESTS getting a divorce. You then pull them out each time she suggests it after that and say "sign if you want" - - I drew them up to give you more because I would rather the money stay in the family, going to you and the kids, rather than go to pay for Lawyers to bilk unsuspecting and hurting women by telling them what they want to hear. ( and if you don't, you will still end up with a 60/40 payment, probably a larger alimony payment, and payment of a child stipend that she will use any damn way she pleases AND have lawyer bills on top of that. )
But you are right its the same thing we see going on in politics. The lawyer (lawmaker - blue team ) convinces one party they have been victimized (Democrats and women, homos, blacks, criminals who cross the border) so they ask for more than they deserve. Those who are being taken advantage of then attempt to resist and hire a lawyer (lawmaker-red team) but that lawyer has no more incentive to end that fight than the first does. They get more money if they convince both parties to engage in a long conflict that is never resolved.
DEM-RED TEAM: "You need us so we can use the government to steal from and punish those who victimized you (okay really anyone who disagrees with our agenda) "
GOP-BLUE TEAM: "You need us or the RED TEAM WILL TAKE IT ALL!"
In the end 90% goes to the lawyers, 30% to your wife and you get a second job to make up that 20% ...