Not to get too crude...but I occasionally wonder about rape. To me, as a guy, the thought of violence or behaving violently doesn't arouse me in a way which would make copulation possible. In fact, if I am on a rant about politics...or angry in general...I must
intentionally change my mindset on those nights Mrs. de Fleurs hands me a glass of vino & winks @ me (or simply winks!).
And in the case of a woman attacking me with coitus on her mind - I'd have to make a deliberate decision to attempt to become aroused, or in the case of Jennifer Lawrence let nature take its course, - but that hasn't happened (yet
).