Men vs. males, that's a great distinction. Our civilization has become unmanly, both in the literal sense of its male population as well as figuratively in the culture's values and attitudes. Nature abhors a vacuum. We already know what is poised to rush into the rotted out void of what used to be Western Civilization.
and you get the "that's not very Christian, now is it?"
That invariably comes from the revisionists who want to redefine Christ as some sort of early beta version hippy. You know what's
really not very Christian? Gutting your culture of its moral fiber and fortitude, and leaving it defenseless against conquest by Islam.
That is most un-Christian.
Pastors are supposed to be the shepherds of their flock. The chief duty of any shepherd is to beat back the wolves that try to prey on the flock.