I can't find it in my heart to bash this woman. She is so in over her head in this job, with evidently no clue how to educate herself. And then, she's married to that man, who seems to have no center...what kind of husband could he have been, back when he had the time to be a husband? Well, maybe she doesn't care; maybe she's just glad to have a plausible husband. I had a friend once (now deceased), a black female, who called a certain kind of black woman a "Mary Jane." I gathered it had to do with ambition and status and a decent trophy husband. I think she would have called Michelle a "Mary Jane," but even so, I'd go easy on her. She was not prepared - like with a real life or a real husband, the way Laura Bush was - to take up residence in the White House and handle it graciously...like Laura Bush did. Besides, it takes all my time and energy to stay sane while watching the President drive us off the cliff.