HOMESCHOOLING!
Home-Schooling is great. I genuinely applaud those who engage in it.
I do think, though, that it partially side-steps the issue…& then more freedom is abdicated by us not being there.
Used to be (in elementary school grades) that whenever there was a book or a movie (usually promoting sex or homosexuality), I physically appeared on campus & “excused” my children from such. After ½ a dozen visits, we began letting them know via email…& still got our way. I will always go out of my way to create the impression that I’m not backing off or down and that I am the boss when it comes to my children’s education. I have handled the few bullying episodes (very early – 4th grade) the same way…resorting to indirect intimidation with Principals & Vice-Principals (who, at their core, are reasonable, once you clear the air & ask them what they’d do if it were
THEIR kid).
I know our school system…& this won’t even occur
once – but I miss for those slow, purposeful conversations in which I systematically lay down the law, & remind them who’s in charge of my child’s education…all the while remaining [tenuously] cordial.