Too little, too late...will have zero effect...when the SHTF all these traitors are forfeit...
I always have a story to make my point. Can't help it. So here it goes.
I hate to admit it, but I lived with my husband before we were married. Back in those days there was an "incident". He'd been acting like a jack-ass, which, when you are living together, can be a lot worse than when you are married.
Trying to please him, make him feel better, I I looked in our poor persons cabinet and found a carrot cake mix. Cool! I'll make him a cake. So I did.
I could not afford the ingredients for frosting, but I had powdered sugar and who knows where I got them-paper doilies. After the cake was done, I placed a dolie on top of the cake and sifted powdered sugar over it, lifted it carefully and there was a beautiful pattern left behind!
When he came home in his typical rotten mood, I presented it to him. What'd I get for my efforts? "Carrot Cake! You made me carrot cake? I HATE carrot cake!
I was heartbroken.
BTW, don't think my husband is a tyrant, ok? He had some very large issues he was dealing with, lots of luggage that is not always easy to overcome or deal with.
Anyway. More than 20 years later we are invited over to our new neighbors house for a BBQ. After we all ate, I went to the kitchen to see if I could help out. Our new neighbor was preparing desert. You guessed it.
Carrot Cake.
So what do I do?
I say "Margaret, that looks delicious!"
She says "I hope everyone likes carrot cake"
I say "like it? My husband LOVES carrot cake!"
She says "well then, I'll cut him a bigger piece"
I say "Are you sure you have enough?"
She says " oh, dear, I have plenty, he can have as much as he wants"
I say (LOL) well, then you wouldn't mind if he had seconds? I mean, he'll probably scarf this up and say he's had enough to be polite. He won't let you give him seconds."
She assured me that my dear husband would get seconds no matter how much he declined.
And he did.
When somebody is unreasonable, it might take time, but one day they will eat their words.