I don't know what's worse a male who doesn't know how to be a man or a male who wants to make sure everyone knows he's the man. Neither knows what being a man is.
Maybe the former has a chance to learn...just never had the right role model or internal gumption.
Yes, there's that. And such a guy is less likely to hurt others than the guy who has to "show" everyone he's a man. I've known both.
I like Mal's description to the doc when he was worried of being off'd in his sleep...
"You'll be awake, armed and facing me"...
It's only when I am quiet that people acting foolish have cause to be nervous.
If I am yapping I am only having fun. Well, OK...sometimes I do toy with my food.
The cat has taught me bad habits...