Yes, the libertine libertarians have a lot messed up in their head, as do their libertine progressive cousins.
And no, not all love is equal, only what the libertines define as "good" is allowed.
For example, the kind of "love" a Muzzie exhibits when genitally mutliating their wives...or have them stoned to death...are examples of "good love", as is the case of same sex marriages and now this effed up pair of sickos. But, if I say I really really love to convert sickos into healthier people by translating them into the next life, well, one wonders what the libertines might say, eh?