No, Weisshaupt, we don't miss the point at all. We've moved beyond it.
I personally don't give a rat's ass whether or not "society" values my ability to clean better than anybody I know or considers it menial and degrading. Or that I cook even when I don't friggin feel like it.
For all the trash-talk aimed at women like me, there is a market for such "skills" among those who consider themselves above such tasks.
The three weeks I was in NJ at my parents' house was spent doing a lot of cleaning. Mom likes it clean, she just has no interest in doing it, never really did. And, yes, I grumbled some at first, until I was reminded that such service to another is one way of serving Christ, so that put an end to the grumbling.