Ahhh...A subject near and dear to my heart. How to dress for church.....
I'm a proponent of wearing your best clothing to church. If the best you own is torn, worn, threadbare or old, i'm ok with it, i make no judgement and so is everyone else who has thier heart in the right place. If you wear those type clothes because you don't want to "offend" anyone, then your " non offensive statement" is false, misleading and frankly, it is the problem we have in society today. Dumb down. Don't have high expectations. Don't expect much from yourself. You certainly don't expect much from others.
This is where I wish I could express myself better in print. I had this conversation this weekend as they told me I wore nice suits because I thought I was better than everyone else. I wear nice clothing because I believe my inward AND outward appearence are important, especially in church. The first thing a visitor witnesses, before my heart, is what I'm wearing...It is their first impression. Sorry, but your birensock, laptop and donut do not inspire people. If I visit a family, I dress nice. More importantly, if I find a family who can't,( in need) I make sure they can. I found this much better in winning hearts than a lazer light show, loudspeakers, and songs that drone "do you love Jesus" over and over and over again as you force a handclap.
If you go on a job interview, do you wear shorts and a tee? Is your hair unruly? Are you eating a donut? Ok, you may carry your laptop with you, but you aint opening it up and looking at baby pics. I believe I can make the same effort for church.
I've found churches follow doctrine like they dress. I'm not advocating a dress code...Your going to church for goodness sakes, do you really need to be told what to wear? Attempting to win people by looking like elvis costello...I just don't think it works. But it is just my opinion and please don't take my post a comdemnation of what anyone else may wear.
Ok, I'm im done....