It happens everywhere.
Years ago at my sons high school soccer match, we are playing in an affluent area of Nashville, a private school. Now, our team wasn't particully talented at soccer...we were a bunch of football players "intructed" by coaches that we would play soccer...LOL.
I think we lost 3-1, but the score really didn't matter. The game was rough. Lots of fouls. After the game, there is only a large parking area and after a brief team meeting, we were leaving. Some of thier players took it upon themselves to taunt our guys as we left....With several of thier parents within earshot.. It was bad, with foul language the standard. Frankly, it was sad. A few of our parents instructed our kids to let it go, lets just leave.....Until one felt the need to hurl a water bottle and it hit my car. We didn't use a team bus, the parents provided transportation. Now I'm mad....And my son has to be restrained.
I approached a few of thier parents to see if they witnessed my car hit. I know they did, but I was giving them an opportunity to defuse this. Now, the kid who threw it was ramping up the verbage as I was speaking to, it turned out to be, his parents....and it is now directed at me.
His parents had the gall to state they were just being kids, as he is cussing me literally 10 yards away. I requested them to have him stop. He is laughin and taunting me and the parents did nothing....It was really unbelievable. SO..... I walked over to the kid and told him.....See the kid over there itching to get here? If you don't stop now, I'm allowing him to come over....
Well, the kid didn't stop. His parents started over but it was too late...My son made his presence known, got in the kids face and said something like "now say one more thing." He did, my son body slammed him and before he could be pulled off, lets say the kid was real quiet afterwards....
Honestly, I did not like the violence. You had to be there to hear the stuff thier team was yelling and the ends we went to just leave.
But you know, sometimes there is no other option. His parents turned out to be pussies. We actually played them at our place later that year...LOL......We won that match as their kids were petrified....LOLOLOL