whimsicalmamapig, I take your point about the enormity of our problem with re-educating the last couple generations, and it is a thoroughly depressing one.
I would like to say though, that I've heard it said that God obliged the Israelites to spend forty years wandering in the desert because they were not ready to settle down and govern themselves, and needed to be led and watched over and disciplined by Moses until the fugitive generation had died out. Those people had been slaves and had only known a life of slavery. The new generation had grown up free, and learned to conduct themselves (well, more or l less) by the law Moses had given them. In light of the New Testament understanding of redemption, I rather incline to this theory rather than that of the impossibility of re-thinking sinful behavior.
Today we do not have an abrupt break with slavery to impel us to learn anew how to govern ourselves, but we have the Constitution, and the ongoing veins of American patriotism running like streaks of gold ore through our society. We must simply be willing to pay the price of freedom - eternal vigilance. Personally, I take heart at the number of young people who do NOT fit the norm. They turn up in the news, like the middle school kid who refused to take off his God-and-guns t-shirt, and that girl on Huckabee last night, who did not lie down and roll over just because she was being bullied at school. And there is the amazing popularity of "Duck Dynasty," which I find most encouraging.
I'm reminded of the recent Krauthammer interviews on television. The things that matter - the elegant and beautiful things in life - cannot be secure unless we get the politics right. We MUST get the politics right.